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5 Days & Counting

Yesterday I took the kids up to what has been, until this point, Olivia’s school. I say has been because on Monday Alex has his first day of school.

And I’m ready not ready.

Wasn’t he just a baby yesterday? But then also driving me crazy just yesterday? Wasn’t he needing me to feed him just yesterday? But then also eating 5 drum sticks just yesterday at dinner?

We were at the school mainly so I could get Olivia measured for her new uniforms. She grew so much in the past few months that that second year we thought we could get out of her skirts from last year isn’t going to happen. So, we measured and ordered and Olivia’s classmates that live at the children’s home there oohed and ahhed over her newly pierced ears and she was all shy and bashful like she gets when she secretly loves being the center of attention.

I spent some time visiting with the schools directors and catching up, which filled my heart and got me feeling a bit more prepared for things. While we visited Alex ran down to the playground by what will be “their” building now, where their classrooms are. I’m thankful that we moved Olivia there last year because things are already familiar to him. In his amazing sweetness, when I told him we needed to go visit the school and ask some questions about next week he said, “And I need to learn where the bathroom is.”

This morning as we snuggled he asked once again, “Is tomorrow school day?” He’s so excited, and I’m so excited for him. I know that once he gets settled he’s going to do great. He’s ready for this. And I’m ready. I think.

Because we work from home, it’s getting harder and harder to get stuff done while the kids are buzzing around, asking for things, needing to be fed and watered and oh! The boredom! I seriously spend half of my work day trying to tell them why I can’t just drop everything to walk over to the water cooler (that they can reach) to fill up a water cup for them (that’s already on the counter in front of the water cooler). Or why I can’t drop everything and color with them right that second. And, we’re well into the fighting all the time stage where some sort of injustice is always going down every. second. of. the. live. long. day.

So am I looking forward to school starting?

Yes. Yes, I am.

Because for 6 solid hours of every day my children will be in separate rooms from each other and be refereed by someone that isn’t me. I thought that school was going to be starting next Wednesday so I may have let out a huge small yelp of joy when I touched base with the principal and she told me they were starting Monday. I just gained two days of sanity. Just like that! Wahoo!

Chris and I were talking a couple nights ago about what a difference having both kids in school will mean for our work day. It’ll mean we can work uninterupted. I won’t have to get people stuff other than our staff. I might actually be able to have a full conversation with Chris, multiple times per day, without having someone interrupting us. No more yelling and crying and being judge and jury while I’m trying to have a cohesive thought. We might actually be incredibly productive.

But, I’m also keenly aware that we’re closing one chapter of our lives and opening another. While we were on vacation I had to run to Target and pick up some things, some of which was clothing for the kids. In years past I’ve had to shop between the kids department and the toddler section, but this time I realized that none of our kids fit anything in the toddler section anymore. As I stood there in the middle of the aisle with my cart, already shellshocked from the cultural transition that thought hit me like a ton of bricks. I looked at the baby section, the entire baby section of the store and thought, “I don’t ever need to step foot in there again for our family. We’re done with ALL of that. ” And I felt a bit sad and happy all at the same time. When we were packing I may have at one point yelled from the bedroom, “Honey! I just realized that we don’t have to pack diapers! No more diapers! No bags of diapers to lug along wherever we go!! Do you know how much extra space that gives us??!?!”We’ve come home and we’re officially done with pull ups now too.

And on Monday we official begin the all our kids are in school phase of life that will not end until they’re adults. We have three weekdays of not school years left, and then we’re officially into the school years. And while I’m SO ready, part of me feels not ready, and I realize this is the hard part about being a parent. You always want your kids to keep moving forward with life, onto that next phase, because that’s healthy for them. But, there’s always that part of you that wants to bottle them right where they’re at and keep all the precious sweet things about them frozen in time.

So, that’s the conundrum. Accepting that time is always moving forward and loving all the things about it. But wanting to freeze certain things and hold onto those too.

And here we are. Only five more sleeps until we venture into unchartered territory.

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~Leslie

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August 12, 2015 No Comments
Construction Week 24

Construction Week 24

Note: This post was written at the end of May, and for some reason I didn’t publish it after doing all the hard work of putting the pictures in. Not sure what happened there… Lol! Posting it now so you can see where we were before we left for holidays.

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My 7 year old is curled up on the couch reading a chapter book to herself for the first time ever. My 3 year old just made himself toast for the first time. Chris is starting to pack random things for our vacation and my brain is running all over the place with stuff. Vacation plans. Packing. Construction things. Stuff to order. Things that need to be done. School finishing this week for Olivia… Craziness!

I appreciate everyone’s patience over the past month or two. I was so inspired when I started the new blog and wanted to be writing all the time. Because things have been busy around here and my focus has been on other things I haven’t had the time to be here much, and I miss it. I’ve written a lot of blog posts in my head that have never made it into the computer, which makes me sad. But, I know it’s a season. A very busy season. And, sadly the thing that I love – writing – the thing that actually fuels my creativity, hasn’t had any of my time. The result is that I haven’t been feeling very inspired lately and have been having a hard time focusing on certain things, like a website revamp project I’m working on for the mission. Just a little spark of creativity and excitement is enough to get the juices flowing again though, and I’m starting to feel it.

It probably also helps that I know I’m in a time crunch now. You see, we leave on vacation soon, and when we come back the house is hopefully going to be in a stage where we can start working on the finishing stuff. For me that means all my months of staying home will become day after day of being on the building site getting stuff done. I’m so excited about it, a little bit terrified, and a teeny bit overwhelmed. There’s so much that needs to be built in the house – kitchen cabinets and counters, the office built ins, storage room shelving times two (one up, one down), bathroom vanities times two, hallway storage, three closets and stairs. Oh, and entry way stuff. And screen doors! Lol! I’ll see you in January!!

Things are definitely moving on the house and it’s been a long time since I updated anything about it. I’m crossing my fingers that the satellite internet will let me load pictures today…

At the beginning of May the guys started working on the form work for the ceiling. Our current ceilings are just under 9 feet tall, which is great, but the new house will have 9’5″ ceilings! When you live in a hot climate that translates into more airflow. It makes rooms feel bigger.

The process for forming the ceiling (or roof) to pour the concrete is actually interesting. In our case, we’re building all of our residential buildings to US seismic code, so there’s a lot of rebar in the building, and it all ties together. All of the rebar is cut and shaped, then tied by hand. Each floor has a “header beam” around the ceiling that ties into the rebar running vertically. From the first floor the rebar running vertically will be extended as the walls go up, and eventually tied into the roof bars when it’s time to form that for the roof pour.

In our case, that header beam is 16 inches deep. That’s 16 inches of solid concrete and rebar. The idea is that if there is an earthquake, the header beams that are tied into the vertical rebar running up through the walls will create a cage of sorts, and while the blocks that don’t have rebar running through them might crumble and fall in, the “cage” will flex, but hold the levels and roof up so that people can get out. It’s crazy to have to think about all of this, but a couple years ago after much research into the fault lines running under Haiti, it was declared that Haiti is an earthquake zone of high risk and people need to put measures in place to deal with that. So, we are. We would rather spend more money on buildings that are structurally sound, than cut corners and potentially lose lives.

When I went out to the site at the beginning of May I finally started to get a real feel for each of the rooms on the lower floor. As the walls went up in April, they did it by doing sections, with three crews working on different areas all at the same time. It meant that I would go out one day and all of the sudden there was an office room, then a storage room and bathroom, then the kitchen was becoming something while the living room was starting to take shape. But, until the formwork went up for the ceilings it was hard to really feel what the spaces would be like.

That first day of walking around with all of it up in most of the first floor made me let out a sigh of relief. You see, I’ve been working on the house plans for almost two years. It’s been a very long process, with lots of tweaks and changes along the way. It’s been a very creative and personal process for me. It’s been a process of taking ideas in my head and putting them on paper, then handing them over to others to make happen. And the whole time that we’ve been building I kept wondering if it was all going to work. Were the rooms going to be the size that I had anticipated? Would all my pacing out and measuring on the floor have translated into good usable space? Would the place flow well?

So many questions!

So yes, a sigh of relief as I walked around and saw it become what I’d had in my mind for the past two years. And then I started to get giddy. This is really happening!!

I’ve been trying to take pictures from the same place as we go so you can get an idea of the progress. The first picture is from the north corner when I last updated you in the middle of April, then progressing:

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Week 18

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Week 19

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Week 20

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Week 21 – Chris is walking by what will be the office.

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Week 22 – Doesn’t look much different outside from this angle. Lots going on inside and on the other side of the building.

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Week 23 – Plywood is the formwork for the 16″ header beams. And yes, I know Alex has no shoes on. We’d have to crazy glue them on to keep them on.

And that’s pretty much what it looks like from the ground right now. Let’s go inside…

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Week 19 – Just inside the office. To the left you can see a small space – that’s the pantry/storage room/brew closet. To the left of that is the kitchen.

Week 21 – That same office corner with the formwork and “potos” (jack stands) in place. The jack stands will support all the plywood as tons and tons of concrete get poured on top tomorrow. Yes, tomorrow is pour day!!!

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And, let’s look at things from a different angle that I haven’t really shown you yet…

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Week 18 – North East corner and what will be a covered deck and house entrance area. We have an office door for work use, and a private entrance for, well, private use :) The guy in the trench was compacting things to get ready to pour the foundation for the deck area.

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Week 19 – One week later and the foundation, floor and bottoms of the support columns have been poured. The second floor will also have a deck area right above which will be mostly for laundry use. This lower deck will be where we receive guests and the first thing you see as you drive in. We’re already tossing around ideas to help it make a nice first impression.

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Week 20 – The walls are getting higher! That’s the living room area to the left of the deck.

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Week 21 – Looking from the living room side. You can see the form work going up in the living room here.

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Week 23 – We skipped ahead a week because things didn’t look much different while we waited on details from our structural engineer friend.

And that’s where we are now! I was out there on Friday and did take some pictures, but from a completely different angle than anything I’ve shown you yet, because it was the first time I got to go to this particular spot…

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Ta da!! In case you were wondering what all the form work looks like from above, this is what it looks like :)

All of the “trenches” are actually the lower walls and the trenches are going to be the header beams I was telling you about. Like I said before, solid concrete and rebar. All the PVC pipe is electrical lines running through the ceiling for light fixtures and fans. The big grey pipe right here in front is going to go to the roof to run all the electrical lines from the solar panels down to the inverters, charge controllers and batteries.

To help you get your bearings, I’m standing on top of the living room in the above picture, looking towards the north corner and what will be the office. Going slightly left of that will be the storage room/pantry/brew closet that I mentioned before, and to the very left of the picture is the beginning of the kitchen.

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Standing in the same spot as the above picture I turned slightly to my right and that, my friends, is the top of the deck. Right after I took these pictures the guys came up and started tying the rebar frames in place for the deck railing support posts. I’ll get a picture from the ground tomorrow so you know what I mean. Basically we need to have something to hold the metal railings in place, so we’re putting concrete railing height posts in to tie the railings into. That way we don’t have to worry about a railing giving way on anyone leaning on it.

Little fun tid bit for you… the space to the left of the deck at the top edge of the house is going to be the laundry room. Right now our washing machine is in our bathroom, and it’s been fine, until it hasn’t been fine and we get a flooding machine because it needs some love. We decided to put a laundry room off the deck area so any leaks would just drain right out side, and it was close to where the clothesline will go, so more efficient than packing a basket of wet clothes through the house. I’m not going to lie, when I was standing in what will be the bathroom and sizing up the space where the vanity will go, I got giddy because we’ll actually have counter space and drawers for every member of the family!

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Speaking of bathroom! Hello there my little friend. Not a great picture, but that’s one corner of it, in case you couldn’t guess from all the plumbing pipes.

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Don’t fall! I’m standing right at the top of what will be the stairs going from the first to second floor. After the form work is taken off one of the bosses will be working on the stairs. Then we’ll be able to take the stairs to the top floor instead of a ladder.

So that’s where we are now! And the next time I show you pictures everything will be concrete again. And maybe there will be walls to the second floor going up!

While the guys are busy out in Kan Marie, Chris and I have been working on some detail stuff on our end. A couple of times this past week our kitchen table has looked like this:

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Chris has been working through square footage calculations for things like foam sheets to go in the roof to help cool the building, and floor tile, which I get to go order this week!

As I said, tomorrow we start doing the ceiling pour. It’s going to take two days. I’ll be sure to get pictures to share with you.

~Leslie

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August 6, 2015 2 Comments

Getting Back To It

We arrived back in Haiti last Thursday after about 6 and a half weeks of vacationing. I know that sounds like a lot, but it’s always much needed respite and time to reconnect with friends and family.

We had a great time away this year. It was probably my favorite vacation ever. We didn’t have a ton of mission business to take care of, and what was needed were more informal get togethers with people we would have wanted to see anyway, so bonus!

We spent the first few days in Miami as a family, which was business related, but fun. We rented a car, stayed in a hotel and bought a bunch of solar panels. You might not be excited about that, but we are. While it meant dollar signs right now, a couple years from now we’re going to have made all that back in the generator fuel we won’t have to be buying once we move. Yep, the new Clean Water for Haiti site is going completely solar. It’s what most organizations dream of, and we feel truly blessed to be able to take this step. It’s going to mean so much saved money over the life of the mission, which directly translates to more filters for family, healthier people and well, you get the idea.

Miami highlights:

  • Hearing the kids observations as we drove around. Talk about being reminded that our kids are NOT growing up in North America. We were stifling laughter a lot of the time.
  • The conversations we’d have with the GPS unit. Her British accent and Olivia calling her “Mrs. Directions” helped us develop a personal relationship to the point that we were all talking to her by the time we returned the car.
  • Amelia Earhart Park. If you’re in the Hollywood area and have kids definitely check it out. Free parking during the week. Acres of fun. 5 small lakes. A fabulous playground. A petting “farm” with about 50 goats. We even got to see a baby goat being born. Chris was the goat whisperer, which was pretty funny. And, the iguanas everywhere. It was some good free fun.
  • Airconditioning. In the car. In the hotel. In every building. It was amazing. And Olivia was cold. She literally wore a hoodie while driving. #notfromhere

From Miami we headed to Seattle where we stayed with friends, the same ones that house our beloved VW van for us. The kids and I spent less than 24 hours there, which involved sleeping, and me quickly repacking some things for the rest of the summer and opening a billion packages of stuff needing to go back to Haiti. Drawer pulls! School uniforms! Ranch dressing packets! Dish towels! All. The. Things. The next morning a friend picked me and the kids up early, we swung by the airport to check to see if our luggage had arrived. Oh yeah, none of our bags arrived with us! Lol! Totally forgot about that until now! Everything was there, and we swung by that friends house to grab a few things that had been stored there, then headed for the train station. We took the Amtrak down to Chris’ parents house while he stayed back to finish up a few things on the van. It was the first time traveling by train for all of us and I loved it. So fun and relaxing. It’s a great way to travel with kids because you can get up and move around.

We spent just over two weeks with Chris’ parents and had a great time. For my birthday Chris gave me a few days away at a cottage at Long Beach, WA. It was our first time away from the kids in almost two years, so much needed! Good times were had by all.

From Vancouver we headed up to BC with a quick stop in Bellingham to see friends. After arriving in BC we stocked up on groceries and headed for the hills, literally! It was camping time. We spent two weeks driving and camping around the Kootenays.

I’ll be honest, I was not super excited about two whole weeks camping. We camp every summer, but two weeks would be the longest trip we’d ever done with the kids. That’s a lot of laundry and potential kid whining. But, it was so fun! We had a great time. The kids slept in a tent the whole time and did great with that. Most nights it sounded like a circus in there until they’d finally fall asleep from exhaustion. They’re at a great age for traveling around now because a) no diapers; b) no baby stuff; c) they’re super enthusiastic about everything. Seriously. Everything is cool and amazing and fun. We camped at some cool spots and they would always find stuff to do. That creek that’s frigidly cold? Swimming pool! (Yes, even Miss Freezing In Air Conditioning) Sticks? Yes! Having big adventures? Heck yeah! We just had a lot of fun all around as a family, which was much needed for all of us.

After our camping adventures we stayed with my parents for a couple of weeks and again had a good time. We finished up our time with them by going to a family reunion, which was great! Because of our summer travel schedule we’ve managed to miss every single big family get together since we got married, so this time around we asked if it would be possible to schedule things so we could attend and everyone was happy to work with that. So thankful for it because we had a great time reconnecting with extended family. Many of us now have kids of our own, and it was fun to see them all running around playing together. We left from the reunion last Monday and went back down to Seattle, spent two nights getting stuff sorted and ready to go, then flew back Wednesday/Thursday.

Great vacation, but it also feels good to be home. I think we had a great rest and are ready to dive back into things knowing that it’s going to be a very busy fall and start of 2016.

How does it feel to be back?

Honestly, there’s always this weird moment when I first walk into our house where I feel disoriented. It happens as I walk into the kitchen and just take it all in. I feel how high the ceilings are, the fans, the light from the windows and I think, “This is my kitchen,” and it takes a bit to feel like my feet are back on solid ground.

Friends of ours were looking after everything while we were away, and they did an amazing job. It’s the first time, ever, that we’ve come back and things have been in better shape than when we left! We have five running vehicles for the first time ever in the history of the mission. The workers are all happy and didn’t have or give any issues while we were gone. The house is a bit behind schedule, but things didn’t stop moving, so we’re happy about that. Overall, it’s like we just got to step out of life and then walk right back into it without a lot of stuff to deal with in the process.

This week is all about getting back in our groove. Monday we had a staff party. Yesterday our friends left for their own vacation and I did a bunch of tidying and organizing around the house. I always feel like my “spring” cleaning and sorting happens in the fall after we get back. It’s when I’m most energized and motivated, as well as needing to figure out where we’re going to put the stuff we’ve brought back. It just helps me feel like my head isn’t going to explode from all the crazy. We got back and I opened the closet that has all our linens and a bunch of other stuff like sunscreen, cough medicine, etc and had bottles fall on me. That kind of thing gets dealt with, like it did yesterday.

There are always some frustrating things with adjusting to being back, but we work through them. Time changes and trying to get back into a normal sleep routine can be a challenge, but we eventually get there. We’re having to deal with some more computer stuff, but we’re getting there. Those really are the biggest issues right now, so I’m thankful.

And the construction? Oh, you’re going to have to wait until the next post for that :) Let’s just say it’s exciting!

~Leslie

PS – Sorry for the lack of pictures. Since it’s been a few months since I posted I just wanted to get something up for you. There are pictures. One day they’ll get up here… ;)

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I’m Leslie. I started my blog back in 2005 when I was fresh off the plane in Haiti. I lived in Haiti for over 17 years as a missionary, wife, and eventually mom. My husband and I ran Clean Water for Haiti together, day in and day out. We carved out a life we loved doing something important to us. Sadly, in the fall of 2022 we had to make the difficult decision to leave Haiti because of the insecurity. We’re now settling into life in the US. I’m thankful that I get to continue my work with CWH as the Executive Director for Canada and the US.

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